Sadly, the news of the last few months has been riddled with devastating stories of terrorist attacks, police brutality, murder, rape, racism, and injustice, leaving many of us struggling with difficult emotions. With technological advances, we are receiving unrelenting minute to minute graphic coverage of these stories with greater speed, intensity, and repetition than ever before. For better or worse, the media invites us to share in the loss, sorrow, and trauma of others. However, our innate ability to empathize with human suffering puts us at risk for carrying a heavy emotional burden.
I have increasingly had patients, friends, and family share with me the impact this exposure has had on them ranging from finding oneself glued to social media stories all the way to completely avoiding the news and/or discussions about these events. While some struggle with anger, sadness, and helplessness, others have described feeling emotionally exhausted from continual grieving that they have become numb and desensitized. What we as a nation and as world are realizing is that we are experiencing trauma.
Subsequently, as an audience we are vulnerable to a great amount of distress and even vicarious traumatization. This term, often interchangeable with compassion fatigue, was originally applied to therapists working with trauma and has now expanded to include a variety of contexts. Thus, in light of exposure to recent events, this idea has become extremely relevant.
Signs and Symptoms
- Emotional and physical exhaustion
- A tendency to withdraw and isolate
- High levels of stress
- Irritability and anger
- Feeling helpless
- Anxiety and fear
- Changes in beliefs related to safety, trust, power/control, esteem, and intimacy
- Emotional numbness
These signs and symptoms can become exacerbated with each additional viewing of that video clip or detailed survivor account. To be clear, I do not advocate for avoidance of these stories or discussions about them, as doing so is denying the reality of the world we live in and the pain inherent in existing in it. It is our natural tendency to move away from things that bring us fear or discomfort. And yet, the challenge is that we face situations and interactions that bring discomfort nearly every day. So avoidance and shutting down our emotions can not only perpetuate discomfort, but it can create more suffering as we spend much of our time and energy trying not to feel something that is already there.
I won’t begin to pretend that I have the answer of how we heal as a nation and as a global community, but I believe the work of healing and change is in moving towards our fears and discomforts with a kind curiosity, rather than moving away. The emotional weight than comes with moving towards our experience is very real, and also we have the capacity to cultivate resilience in the face of stress and crises.
Building Resilience and Enhancing Well-being
2. Self-Care: Have a daily relaxation ritual (reading, stretching, yoga, journaling, etc)
- Nurture your spiritual side
- Engage in movement and exercise
- Spend time with nature
- Play with your pet
- Connect with friends and family
3. Media Diet- give yourself permission to limit your news and social media exposure.
- Turn video autoplay off on social media pages, like Facebook
- Schedule a news review time. Having parameters around the amount of time you spend watching news or scrolling through social media can make it easier to limit your exposure in a healthy way. For example, you may limit yourself to twenty minutes in the morning or evening.
- Unplug. Just as we power down and restart our electronics, it’s important to allow yourself to unplug from social media and engage with the world around you.
4. Make Meaning- in the face of pain, meaningless human suffering, and daily stress, our task is to connect with our values and engage in meaningful behavior. This will look differently person to person and for many of us will occur on a smaller scale. It may entail volunteering, spending time at a place of worship, advocating, or simply being kind to another human being.
As Dr. Viktor Frankl, a Holocaust survivor and renowned psychotherapist, said; “Life holds potential meaning under any conditions, even the most miserable ones.”
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